I reached out to two amazing calligraphers who specialize in two somewhat different types of calligraphy/have different reasons for doing calligraphy. The two experts are
Kelly Klapstein and
Calligraphy Katrina (Katrina Centeno-Nguyen) and they both gave great advice, and shared some helpful tips.
I wanted to stray away from asking typical questions like "how did you start out?" so that I would be able to have a more meaningful exchange of information with them. I felt that some answers related more to me than others, because they were either more helpful or were responses that I felt the same way about/found interesting. I began by asking them both to describe their style, which compared/contrasted the two. These were the two answers that I received:
Kelly-
My writing style is minimalistic and simple, with few flourishes and fairly round, upright letter forms.
Katrina-
My writing style would best be described as my own handwriting. People always ask me how I learned how to write or how I began -- to be honest, my story is quite boring. I never took lessons or had special training in calligraphy. This is basically how I wrote since I was a child, and I was just very, very lucky to have nice handwriting. My consistency and form has improved through the years of practicing, but my style is definitely unique to me. All my fonts are of my own design, and I am constantly brainstorming new font style ideas.
I find it amazing that Katrina is self-taught, and runs her own successful business selling/renting her art. I do relate to Katrina's answer in the sense that I have always had somewhat good handwriting, and my calligraphy branches off of that. Kelly's description of the way that she writes is more similar to my style, because it would be describes as more 'modern.'
I asked them both whether or not they found calligraphy relaxing or stressful. Though the answer to this might be obvious, I thought it was very relevant to somebody learning calligraphy (and being stressed out by it.) Kelly responded by saying that she found it very relaxing, and that it has become her escape from the world. I found Katrina's response very interesting, because sometimes I forget that these people who make such beautiful pieces of art sometimes get frustrated too:
Katrina-
It can be both! For the most part, calligraphy is such a stress reliever for me. I love this art-form, and I will never stop writing; however, there are some days when it can be stressful. As an artist and a human begin, we all have our off-days. There are days when I feel like I am unhappy with the work I am producing because I don't think it looks good enough. I am very critical of what I create, and I have a high standard for the quality of work that I release. On those days when I am just not feeling it, it can really stress me out. Even after years in the business, I still make sure that I release projects that I believe in.
I asked both of these wonderful ladies how I should work on/fix my problem with spacing between letters and words. Both recommended practicing with a grid, because I would soon get used to it and be able to write the same without the grid. Kelly informed me on the fact that the spaces between the lettering is called "kerning." Katrina let me in on the little secret that most calligraphers actually use a light box to line up their words properly!
Lastly, I asked them for some advice that they would give to somebody starting out in calligraphy, and they gave two somewhat similar answers:
Kelly-
I once read a great quote by a famous calligraphy, and he said that calligraphy shouldn't look perfect, like it's produced by a computer. Develop your own style, and don't copy someone else. Embrace the imperfections because that is what makes your calligraphy unique. Striving for perfection can take the joy out of the art and then the creative expression is lost.
Katrina-
I'm a strong believer in disciplining yourself to practice what you love to do. My passion is writing! I can do this for days, and I would never get tired of it! That's the best advice I can give you coming from someone that is completely self-taught. Practice, practice, practice. Although I am not a teacher, there are also many classes and workshops that you can take to learn this fascinating art; as well as, books and YouTube tutorials! =)
You don't need the most expensive tools to start! That's another wonderful thing about calligraphy. I started out just doodling with a ballpoint pen on a notepad. As my handwriting progressed, I moved on to nicer pens until I eventually taught myself how to use a traditional quill pen. You don't have to start off big -- baby steps!
They both went around the idea of calligraphy being your own personal thing. Kelly focused more on creating your own style and trying to be unique, rather than striving for perfection. Katrina stayed on the track of practicing a ton, and building up the skill slowly. Both answers were very helpful and relevant to me. This makes me question my idea of learning a new font each week. Maybe I should focus more on creating my own font (as some of you have suggested in the comments.) These two interviews opened up my eyes and taught me many new things. Please feel free to read all of the questions and answers through the link that I shared, and check out their Instagrams (click on their names in the first paragraph.)